How you approach your divorce can be the difference between a traumatic experience and a transformative one. The Zen of an uncontested divorce is achieved by accepting and not contesting the end of your relationship as husband and wife. You came together by love in marriage and ending your marriage with love will help you […]
Living Together During Divorce
In these tough economic times, many couples must continue to live together while they are negotiating their divorce. Such living arrangements can be quite toxic for the entire household creating lasting harm for each member of the household for years or decades to come. In order to deescalate the level of conflict I recommend to all my clients to consider alternative separate living arrangements preferably with
Timing is Everything
Often in my practice I have an initial consultation with a client about divorce and then I do not hear from them for a few weeks, months or even years. Surprisingly this is not unusual! One of the first questions I like to ask in a consultation is whether the couple has sought the support of a marriage therapist or an individual therapist to
